How long it takes to look for dowloads?

[sivart]

After you press DS download play, it says Looking for Availible software for download but it takes forever to find anything even if their is another game being played right next to me. I waited about twenty minutes and nothing. Please tell me how long it takes and what I am doing wrong.

[forgetmenot]

I cant believe how many people are geting confused with the ds down load play. ok first of all the ds down load is so you can pick up the signals of others ds so you can play multi but the other person has to have a multi playerd game and has to be playing the multi player mode not just playing in the single player modes (does every one understand, comprenda amego,