pspvnc help

ive searched google for awhile now trying to get this to work here my specs:
psp phat :5.00 m33-6
ive fworded ports 5800/5900
let my firewall pass them(check to see of they wer open and they wer and r)
im using a computer thats connected wireless
installed realvnc and tightvnc
tryed both no luck
im using the 1.5 vr of pspvnc
the program connects to my wireless router
make new host ip my computers ip on port 5800(witch i have set to default)
it stays at connecting for awhile(well now im getting a diffrent error but still the same i guess error:cannot initialize)
idk what im dooing wrong eney help would be nice and if you all need eney more info needed just let me kno and btw ive tested my realvnc server on another computer and it works