My Frekin' Step Dad and mom

**ninja9393** · July 5th, 2008, 21:39

This may be a long rant but it is the only place I can post it where they can't see

ok a little background on my parents
Tom (StepDad) is a artist for Lucasfilm. I live with him and my mom for the school year then go to my Dad's. My Dad is the coolest person in the world and his wife (patty) is the coolest step mom in the world and my little brother Max who is only 2 is the most important person in the world to me. I have the best time every summer going back to my home to be with them and to be in my home (Cali). Tom is mostly a degenerate asshole, and my mom is being a bitch right now.

Why I am so really pissed off.
My grades were mediocre, I passed everything, but I could do better. After school was out, I stayed with Tom and my Mom for a few weeks and a few days before I left, they aid they wanted the Wii for the summer, and I said no because of a few reasons

They didnt spend a penny on it. It was a gift from my whole family in cali
- Before I got it they said they would love to play Wii Sports, I have had it for a year and they still have never played it
  - it is my entertainment in the summer
    - I was worried Nintendo would do something and my parents would upgrade and I would have no homebrew

But then they started yelling at me, telling me to so F*** myself, and that I am a huge asshole, and that you am an unworthy bastard. Then the threatened not seeing my Dad, Patty or my brother Max. I couldn't believe it. If I missed that, I miss a huge chunk of Max's childhood, Time I can never get back. So I bassically had to give it to them. So I am in cali, and I met this girl, Tierissa, and we started hanging out but then I got her number and i relize, Tom freklin' didn't pay the bill still ( it had been that way for 2 1/2 months) and I wanted to talk to my Friends, other family, Tierissa and My grandmother DIEING of cancer. She has only 8 months left and now I can't call her. WTF! So I pull out my email and write this

You need to pay my cell phone bill, I would like to have the ability
to talk to my friends in TX so will you please do that. It has been
off for like 2 1/2 months

then Tom responded this:

I need to? Really? Have you EARNED that cell phone? Your grades? The
attitude at home? Really? I NEED to? I asked you to call your mother once a
week since you left and you could only call on her Birthday so far.

Your phone is off for more then just non-payment.

Her birthday was 1 day over the week period

So I was completely pissed off and I wrote this

I think if you want me to call you every week I should have a Cell phone

So your bassically telling me, you want to cut me out of my friends,
because of my grades, I can't talk to any other parts of my family,
because of my grades. This should of been paid before grades wnt in,
when the bill needed to be paid. I gave you my Wii, I gave you my
entertainment for the summer, just to make you guys an once happier
because I couldn't express my feelings about what I believed what will
happen with it while it was at your house for the summer. But
nevertheless, I let you have it. I also met a girl here and she can't
call me, she has to call my dad just to reach me. It's pretty awkward.
Whatever Tom. I though this phone was for safety too, well if I get
kidnapped or I am lost with no phone, I guess I am totally screwed

And also, you wanted me to bring my cell phne because You said you
we're going to pay the bill once I got there.

Then I get a call a few hours later from my mom on my dad's cell phone with her yelling at me and all I can say is OK. She asks to talk to my dad and I give the phone to him, and I check my email and I see this

This is EXACTLY why you do not have a cell phone. You do NOT talk to me like
you're in charge. Your mother and I both agree on this. You could have
called from your father's phone. You were told before you left, call your
mother once a week and you didn't. THAT, you were told, would determine
whether or not you get phone privileges back. You failed to comply. If you
aren't able to call your friends from your father's house, that is not our
problem.

A Cell Phone is not a right, it's a privilege. You have had an attitude
problem for LONG before I stopped paying your cell phone bill. Your
attitude, your school work, your room, your hygiene has been horrid for I
don't know how long and you can whine and cry to your father all you like
about how awful are. If he'd like the other side, the side he doesn't see
because he only sees you 20% of the whole year, he can call your mother or
he can call me.

Have him stop writing your emails as well.

You want a phone back? You learn to respect your mother and me. WE feed you,
cloth you and shelter you 80% of the year. Had you gotten 1 point lower on
your grades, you would have not gotten to go to your father's... you'd be
sitting in Summer School until a week before school starts.

You should enjoy the time you have there, because when you get home, it will
be a whole different school year.

Have his stop writhing your emails, I FU**ING WROTE THEM, why does it have to be my dad, he had nothing to do with it!

BTW the summer school thing is not true... drama queen

What pisses me off is that I am a relatively good kid. I don't do drugs, never smoked, mostly polite, never drank,had some girlfriends. They act as if I am a horrible person and I cuss right in there face and that I am a disgrace to them

And after I am done reading that my Dad sits by me and we talk and he is cool, he understands that I am pissed, and he is to, but he has no power over it and he wants me to stay here still for the summer so no more emails. I say yes, and I am glad somebody is on my side.

If anyone actully read all of that, please tell me what you think

**Napalm-Death** · July 6th, 2008, 01:20

I think you should find a way to move in with your dad and step-mom...

**Zack** · July 6th, 2008, 01:47

That Tom guy sounds like a Control Freak.

I feel sorry for your situation.

How old are you? You only have to stick it until your 18 anyway then you can do whatever you want

**splodger15** · July 6th, 2008, 08:27

Yeh you should move in with your dad. I wouldn't listen to that Tom guy

**Eviltaco64** · July 6th, 2008, 08:42

Damn, that guy is an asshole.
Im serious man, find a way to stay with your dad.
If $#@! like that is going to happen, I would refuse to leave your dads, of course, that's just my opinion.

**mike_jmg** · July 7th, 2008, 08:21

Originally Posted by Napalm-Death

I think you should find a way to move in with your dad and step-mom...

Originally Posted by Zack

That Tom guy sounds like a Control Freak.

I feel sorry for your situation.

How old are you? You only have to stick it until your 18 anyway then you can do whatever you want

Agreed

**mikeymaster** · July 7th, 2008, 18:21

thats freaking terrible he sounds like a control freak indeed

and why would your mother allow this?

I think you should find a way to move in with your dad!

**masterchief929** · July 7th, 2008, 20:33

i would refuse to go back for the school year and if you do end up going back to not speak a word to your step-dad the entire time. i feel sorry for you and can't even imagine what your going through.

**pibs** · July 7th, 2008, 20:36

Man u dont have to take that sh!t, stay in cali with ur dad. If what u say is true, they clearly dont care about you. I know parents force their children to get higher grades to have bragging rights like if they did the work or something.....