I would say you can go from 3.02OE to 3.10OE, but if you scared, just use the recovery pack to go to 1.50 and then go up to 3.10OE.
It is FINE to copy and paste flash0, it is recommended, for a backup.
You dont need a PSX emulator for 3.10OE, it runs PSX eboots?
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